Welcome to Super Social Man, your best resource for dating in today’s world. It’s easy to talk about how things have changed in the business world through the decades, but we see much fewer newscasts about how dating has changed — which can make it difficult to keep up! Of course, age-old fundamentals rest at the coreof all dating advice — be confident, be engaging, be attentive, be honest, and be respectful — but after departing from the fundamentals the dating universe can become a maze.
The disparity between resources for women and men
The fitness and health industry offers thousands of programs designed to help people reach their goals. However, there is a disparity between resources for women and men. There is an enormous and well-established self-help industry for women. The pages of Cosmopolitan magazine, the characters on “Sex and the City“; and countless books, talk shows, and businesses exist with the sole purpose to help women cope with the challenges of being a woman. The landscape for men, however, is very different. Male sexuality is catered to everywhere in society –from the pages of Maxim to billboards selling the good life to the $97 billion porn industry. Everywhere they turn, men are shown images of women they are supposed to desire. Yet there is little advice of substance available to help them learn to attract these women, to figure out who they are, or to help them improve their lifestyle and social skills. One has to take into consideration that our social skills determine the course of our lives –our careers, our friends, our family, our children, and our happiness. This is a very big area to neglect. SuperSM.com has helped thousands of men like you, transform their success with women as well as translate this success in a much bigger game — life. If you’re scared to approach women you’re attracted to, if you’re a virgin, if you’ve never been in a romantic relationship, if you’re terminally shy, if you’re recovering from a heartbreak, if you’re suffering from a long, dry spell, if you’re tired of watching other guys have all the fun, if you want to attract better women, or if you’re good with women but still not good enough, welcome to Super Social Man. Whatever your experience is on the subject, you’ll receive the skills, tools, confidence, and knowledge to meet and attract almost any woman, any time you want. You will learn everything you need to know about this particular topic and also gain a deeper understanding of women in general. The lessons range from simple exercises to get you to open your mouth to having a memorable conversation with a woman. There are also lessons that will teach you how to connect with women on such a level that it would seem like you came out of the pages of one of those romance novels.
Here is your first lesson
The first lesson is to think for yourself and not slavishly turn the pages of this website without paying attention to your goals. What do you want to achieve? What are the three things that will make you happy? What is your personal mission? What are the results you want to see to know that you have accomplished that mission? Setting a goal is important. It will navigate you to where you want to be. Before you dive in to learn how to succeed with women, you need to asses yourself and your social life. How do others perceive you? What do you believe they think about you? And more importantly, how would you like to be perceived by others? What traits would you like to change about yourself to be the person you would like to become? the secret to life is to not take it personally. The things people do or say are not always about you. Usually, they’re about their own fears.
Spend some time thinking about a previous social encounter with someone you flirted with, or wanted to flirt with. Were you confident? Engaging? Attentive? Honest & respectful? If not, do you know where your weak points lie? We all have areas socially to improve upon, and the first step is to identify them! Then you can showcase your strong qualities while you practice other areas. First impressions count and it is difficult to change someone’s first impression, so remember to try to radiate confidence and interest — this develops your charisma! Super Social Man knows that developing your charisma is a fundamental cornerstone for success within the dating world. Here at SuperSM.com we also know there are no manipulative tricks that work in relationships – but we also know there are ways to self-improve your habits and approach when it comes to dating, and we are here to guide you through it. Because there is so much romanticism attached to dating (as there should be — love is great!) people often forget that their presentation and actions are being perceived by another; you must remember to be yourself, but a version of yourself you are proud to show off. In the first meetings think of how you would prepare for a job interview — because while dating is certainly more relaxed, it is a presentation of yourself to another who you also want to get to know. No matter how attractive you are physically, or how much wealth you possess, your personality and behavior is important to a potential match! If you cannot engage your partner and hold their interest for a mere first conversation things are not looking hopeful — but that doesn’t mean you cannot improve these skills and it won’t completely change how you are received — it will. Attention to detail and a loose game plan (leave space for spontaneity) will help you feel more confident during any interaction, and allow you to focus on the matters at hand. What matters at hand are we talking about exactly? Some of the many topics that we address here at Super Social Man are:
What is it? How can you increase your social intelligence, and how will a higher social intelligence make you more successful in dating, and all your social actions?
Do you know what your body language is saying? Can you read the body language of others? Do you know how to use it to your advantage?
Do you seize up at the idea of approaching women or are you confident in your small talk skills? Do you know how to charm the whole room, but still zero in on the girl you’re interested in? This article bites the bullet on the topic of how to talk to girls.
Do you know how to determine what level of commitment you want from your relationship? What about your partner? Do you know how to behave to make it clear the relationship is progressing towards becoming boyfriend & girlfriend?
What are the fundamentals of long distance relationships? Is your relationship strong enough to survive? How can you help to ensure its success?
What kind of communication plans will you lay out? How will you keep the spark alive? And how will you manage your time so you balance your relationship with your social life?
You know you made a mistake and want to rekindle things with your ex — but how? Or maybe things have been over for a while, but you want to see if there is anything left to save? Here you’ll come to understand how to evaluate these feelings, and how to take appropriate action on them.
By understanding our fundamentals of dating and applying our concepts here at SuperSM.com you are sure to understand the elements of dating better, which will help you feel at ease and able to follow through without blunders or embarrassment. You will learn how to keep the attention of any special someone and form a connection after just a first encounter. Our dating master, Peter Tangeuro, along with our team of dating & relationship experts are here to help you on your journey to confident and applicable social and dating skills. Click any of the links to get started!
And now it’s time for your second lesson on SuperSM.com: the secret to life is to not take it personally. The things people do or say are not always about you. Usually, they’re about their own fears.As you work to become more successful with women, remember to not take things personally. If you encounter games, drama, and things you just don’t understand, don’t be discouraged because it is all part of your journey. Enjoy it.