Welcome to Super Social Man, your best resource for dating in today’s world. It’s easy to talk about how things have changed in the business world through the decades, but we see much fewer newscasts about how dating has changed — which can make it difficult to keep up! Of course, age-old fundamentals rest at the core of all dating advice — be confident, be engaging, be attentive, be honest, and be respectful — but after departing from the fundamentals the dating universe can become a maze.
Spend some time thinking about a previous social encounter with someone you flirted with, or wanted to flirt with. Were you confident? Engaging? Attentive? Honest & respectful? If not, do you know where your weak points lie? We all have areas socially to improve upon, and the first step is to identify them! Then you can showcase your strong qualities while you practice other areas. First impressions count and it is difficult to change someone’s first impression, so remember to try to radiate confidence and interest — this develops your charisma! Super Social Man knows that developing your charisma is a fundamental cornerstone for success within the dating world.
Here at SSM we also know there are no manipulative tricks that work in relationships — but we also know there are ways to self-improve your habits and approach when it comes to dating, and we are here to guide you through it. Because there is so much romanticism attached to dating (as there should be — love is great!) people often forget that their presentation and actions are being perceived by another; you must remember to be yourself, but a version of yourself you are proud to show off. In the first meetings think of how you would prepare for a job interview — because while dating is certainly more relaxed, it is a presentation of yourself to another who you also want to get to know. No matter how attractive you are physically, or how much wealth you possess, your personality and behavior is important to a potential match! If you cannot engage your partner and hold their interest for a mere first conversation things are not looking hopeful — but that doesn’t mean you cannot improve these skills and it won’t completely change how you are received — it will. Attention to detail and a loose game plan (leave space for spontaneity) will help you feel more confident during any interaction, and allow you to focus on the matters at hand.
What matters at hand are we talking about exactly? Some of the many topics that we address here at Super Social Man are:
What is it? How can you increase your social intelligence, and how will a higher social intelligence make you more successful in dating, and all your social actions?
Do you know what your body language is saying? Can you read the body language of others? Do you know how to use it to your advantage?
How to talk to girls
Do you seize up at the idea of approaching women or are you confident in your small talk skills? Do you know how to charm the whole room, but still zero in on the girl you’re interested in?
How to get a girlfriend
Do you know how to determine what level of commitment you want from your relationship? What about your partner? Do you know how to behave to make it clear the relationship is progressing towards becoming boyfriend & girlfriend?
Long distance relationships
What are the fundamentals of long distance relationships? Is your relationship strong enough to survive? How can you help to ensure its success?
How to make a long distance relationship work
What kind of communication plans will you lay out? How will you keep the spark alive? And how will you manage your time so you balance your relationship with your social life?
How to get your ex boyfriend back
You know you made a mistake and want to rekindle things with your ex — but how? Or maybe things have been over for a while, but you want to see if there is anything left to save? Here you’ll come to understand how to evaluate these feelings, and how to take appropriate action on them.
By understanding our fundamentals of dating and applying our concepts here at SSM you are sure to understand the elements of dating better, which will help you feel at ease and able to follow through without blunders or embarrassment. You will learn how to keep the attention of any special someone and form a connection after just a first encounter. Our dating master, Peter Tangeuro, along with our team of dating & relationship experts are here to help you on your journey to confident and applicable social and dating skills. Click any of the links to get started!